The Queen's Test: Job's Wife vs. Lot's Wife vs. Sarah

"I dreamed a dream in times gone by
When hope was high and life worth living"

That's Fantine from Les Misérables.

Betrayed. Abandoned. Destitute.

Singing about the dream that died.

And it's your wife.

She didn't sign up for this.

She signed up for:

• Biblical womanhood = homeschool curriculum
• Helpmeet = supporting your vision
• Submission = agreeing with you
• Proverbs 31 = matching family outfits and Instagram devotionals

She didn't sign up for:

• Bills late because you tithed
• Church split because you took a stand
• Family thinking she married a cult leader
• Her mother asking if you're abusing her

No one told her costly obedience applies to wives too.

You chose God.

And killed the dream she had for her life.

Now she's singing Fantine's song:

"I had a dream my life would be
So different from this hell I'm living"

And facing the test:

Will she be Job's wife, Lot's wife, or Sarah?

THE THREE QUEENS

JOB'S WIFE (The Cursor)

Ten children dead in one day.

Her husband sitting in ash scraping boils with pottery for six months.

God silent. Friends accusing.

She looked at Job and said:

"Curse God and die."

Translation: "I dreamed a dream—and you killed it."

She's the wife who tells her husband:

• "Your convictions are destroying us"
• "Choose me or choose God"
• "If this is what serving God looks like, I don't want it"

Most wives become Job's wife.

Not because they're wicked.

Because no one prepared them for the cost.

LOT'S WIFE (The Looker-Back)

A house in Sodom. Civilization. Security. Status.

God said: "Leave. Now. Don't look back."

Her husband obeyed. Her daughters obeyed.

She looked back.

One glance at what she was losing.

Became a pillar of salt.

Still standing there today.

A monument to women who can't let go of the dream.

She's the wife who:

• Follows her husband outwardly
• Resents him inwardly
• Can't stop mourning what costly obedience cost
• Compares their life to others who chose comfort

She didn't curse God.

She just couldn't let go.

SARAH (The Laugher)

God promised her a son.

She was 90. Her husband was 100.

She laughed.

Not faith. Disbelief.

"After I am waxed old shall I have pleasure, my lord being old also?"

Translation: "You've got to be kidding me."

But she didn't curse God.

She didn't look back.

She laughed at the impossible.

And stayed.

Nine months later: Isaac.

She's the wife who:

• Follows her husband even when it makes no sense
• Grieves losses without becoming bitter
• Holds disbelief and obedience simultaneously
• Stays faithful for decades without seeing the promise fulfilled

Sarah didn't need to understand.

She just needed to not quit.

THE PROBLEM

When costly obedience destroys the dream your wife had—

When the bills are late and the church calls you divisive and her family thinks she married wrong—

She becomes one of three women:

1. Job's wife (tells you to curse God and die)
2. Lot's wife (looks back at what she lost, becomes pillar of salt)
3. Sarah (laughs at the impossible, bears the miracle)

Which woman did you marry?

And more importantly:

Can you help her become Sarah—or will she stay Job's wife?

WHAT YOU GET

THE QUEEN'S TEST MANUAL (38 Pages, PDF)

PART 1: THE THREE QUEENS

• "I Dreamed a Dream" (The Fantine parallel—how Les Mis connects to biblical femininity)
• Job's Wife (The Cursor—complete biblical analysis + why she failed)
• Lot's Wife (The Looker-Back—why she couldn't let go + Christ's warning)
• Sarah (The Laugher—how she passed the test + Peter's commendation)

PART 2: THE DIAGNOSTIC

• The Queen's Test: 10-question assessment to determine which woman she's becoming
• Scoring Guide: 27-30 = Sarah (passed), 20-26 = Lot's wife (looking back), 10-19 = Job's wife (cursing)
• What To Do Based On Her Score: Specific action steps for each category

PART 3: PASTORAL GUIDANCE

• How To Help Your Wife Pass The Test (without becoming her enemy)
• When She Fails The Test (Job's playbook for men married to Job's wife)
• How To Teach Your Daughters To Be Sarah (not Job's wife or Lot's wife)

APPENDIX

• Scripture Arsenal (30 verses on wives + costly obedience, KJV)
• The Wife's Litany (prayer guide for men whose wives are singing Fantine's song)

THE 10-QUESTION DIAGNOSTIC

This assessment tool helps you determine which woman your wife is becoming:

1. Does she resent your obedience to God when it costs her comfort?
2. Does she compare your life to others who chose comfort?
3. Can she laugh at impossible promises?
4. Does she tell you (or imply) that your integrity isn't worth the cost?
5. Can she grieve losses without becoming bitter?
6. Does she support you publicly even when she questions you privately?
7. Has she let go of the dream she had for her life?
8. Does she see your suffering as God's plan or your fault?
9. Can she worship God even when He doesn't explain Himself?
10. If she could rewrite the story, would she choose comfort or God?

Each question includes:

• Real-world examples
• Biblical precedent (what Job's wife/Lot's wife/Sarah did)
• Clear scoring (3 points = Sarah, 2 points = Lot's wife, 1 point = Job's wife)

Total your score. Find out which woman she's becoming. Get specific action steps.

WHO THIS IS FOR

This manual is for you if:

✅ Your wife is singing "I dreamed a dream in times gone by"
✅ She resents your obedience when it costs her comfort
✅ She compares your life to others who chose the rich young ruler path
✅ She's told you (or implied): "Your convictions are destroying us"
✅ The church calls you divisive and her family thinks she married wrong
✅ You're wondering: Did I marry Job's wife or Sarah?
✅ You want the biblical framework to help her pass the test
✅ You're a father who wants to teach daughters to be Sarah (not Job's wife)
✅ You're in costly obedience and your wife is paying the cost too

This manual is NOT for you if:

❌ Your wife fully supports your obedience (you don't need this—thank God for her)
❌ You're not in costly obedience (she has nothing to resent)
❌ You want to blame your wife instead of help her
❌ You're looking for permission to compromise ("Maybe God didn't really call me")
❌ You think biblical womanhood means she should never struggle

THE PRICE

$27+ (Pay What It's Worth)

Why pay-what-you-want?

Because some men are broke because they tithed.

And some men will pay $100+ because this saves their marriage.

Suggested: $27.

Pay more if this prevents your wife from becoming Job's wife.

Pay less if you're in the ash heap with Job and the bills are late.

Pay nothing if you're desperate—then pay later when God restores you.

What most men spend $27 on:

• Two meals at Chipotle
• One month of Netflix
• A book they'll never finish

What this manual does:

• Shows you which woman your wife is becoming
• Gives you the framework to help her pass the test
• Teaches you Job's playbook if she fails
• Prevents your daughters from becoming Job's wife

$27 is nothing compared to what Job's wife cost Job.

And it's nothing compared to what Lot's wife cost Lot.

And it's nothing compared to what Sarah gave Abraham.

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT

Most Christian Marriage Books Say:

"Just submit more."
"Pray harder."
"Trust God."
"Don't question your husband."

They don't address:

What happens when submission costs everything?

What happens when prayer doesn't change circumstances?

What happens when trusting God means losing the house?

What happens when not questioning your husband means watching him destroy your life?

This manual addresses that.

Because Job's wife submitted for years—then told him to curse God.

Lot's wife followed her husband—then looked back.

Sarah questioned Abraham (laughed at God's promise)—then stayed anyway.

The issue isn't submission. The issue is cost.

And most wives quit when the cost gets too high.

THE GUARANTEE

30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

Read the manual.

Take the diagnostic.

Apply the framework.

If you think this is just soft Christian marriage advice disguised as biblical masculinity—

Get your money back. Full refund. No questions asked.

But if you read this and realize:

"This is why my wife is singing Fantine's song—and this is how to help her become Sarah instead of Job's wife"—

Then this manual is worth 100x what you paid.

Here's What Happens After You Buy:

1. Instant PDF download (38 pages, professionally formatted)
2. Read Part 1 (understand the three queens—Job's wife, Lot's wife, Sarah)
3. Take the diagnostic with your wife (or about your wife if she won't participate)
4. Get your score (find out which woman she's becoming)
5. Apply the framework (specific action steps based on her score)
6. Teach your daughters (how to be Sarah, not Job's wife)

The Question You'll Stop Asking:

"Did I marry wrong?"

Because you'll realize:

Job's wife wasn't the villain. She was the warning.

Lot's wife wasn't the enemy. She was the tragedy.

Sarah wasn't perfect. She was the model.

And your wife can become Sarah too.

If you help her pass the test.

The Question You'll Start Asking:

"How do I help her become Sarah?"

This manual gives you the answer.