60 UNCOMFORTABLE TRUTHS FOR CHRISTIAN WOMEN
Your Bitterness Is Poisoning Everyone Who Tries To Love You
60 days of surgical truth for broken Christian women in the gutter who need company, not rescue
You're bitter.
Everyone can see it except you.
It leaks out in every conversation. Every relationship. Every interaction with your husband, your kids, your church.
You've been nursing this wound for years. Protecting it. Feeding it. Calling it boundaries. Calling it strength. Calling it self-care.
It's not.
It's unforgiveness wrapped in victim theology. And it's destroying you from the inside out.
Your bitterness isn't hurting them. They moved on. You're the one drowning. Alone. At 3 AM. Still angry. Still hurt. Still stuck.
You've tried empowerment podcasts. You've read the "best life now" books. You've attended the conferences where they told you you're enough, queen.
You're not enough. Neither am I. That's the point.
You don't need more affirmation. You need a transfusion.
WHAT THIS IS (AND ISN'T):
This isn't:
- A devotional that makes you feel warm inside
- Empowerment theology for girlboss Christians
- "You're enough, queen" garbage wrapped in Bible verses
- Soft Christianity for comfortable church ladies
- Instagram inspiration you'll forget in 24 hours
This is:
- 60 days of gutter love for women bleeding in the mud
- Surgical truth that offends before it changes
- Biblical femininity without the Hallmark filter
- Company in the gutter, not rescue from above
- Permission to be broken while you heal
WHAT YOU GET (128 PAGES):
60 Days Organized by Your Actual Struggles:
Days 1-10: Marriage & Submission
The truth: Submission isn't weakness. It's strength under control. You're too proud to try it.
Days 11-15: Motherhood
The truth: Your kids don't need a perfect mother. They need a present one. Put the phone down.
Days 16-20: Femininity & Identity
The truth: Biblical femininity isn't weakness. It's power you're too scared to access.
Days 21-25: Bitterness & Unforgiveness
The truth: Unforgiveness is a prison you built. You're the warden and the inmate.
Days 26-30: Victimhood
The truth: Your trauma is real. Your trauma becoming your identity is your choice.
Days 31-35: Control
The truth: You're not a control freak. You're a fear addict pretending to be responsible.
Days 36-40: Beauty & Aging
The truth: You can't Botox your soul. And your soul is what's aging poorly.
Days 41-45: Comparison & Envy
The truth: Her highlight reel isn't her real life. Stop measuring your behind-the-scenes against her stage.
Days 46-50: Singleness & Waiting
The truth: Your singleness isn't punishment. It's preparation. Stop wasting it.
Days 51-55: Prayer & Faith
The truth: You pray for patience but refuse to suffer. That's not faith. That's negotiation.
Days 56-60: The Way Forward
The truth: Jesus met you in the gutter. Now follow Him out. He's not carrying you. He's leading you.
EVERY DAY INCLUDES:
✅ THE TRUTH – One sharp platitude that will offend you first
✅ THE WOUND – Why this truth hurts (and why you need to hear it)
✅ THE SCRIPTURE – KJV anchor because God's Word is sharper than mine
✅ THE BIBLICAL WOMAN – Who struggled with this same thing
✅ THE APPLICATION – For your life today
✅ THE ACTION – One concrete step (actually do it)
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
You're NOT:
- Looking for soft theology
- Wanting "your best life now" promises
- Seeking empowerment mantras
- Comfortable in your Christianity
- Okay with where you are
You ARE:
- Bitter and know it (or everyone else does)
- Divorced, shattered, or barely holding on
- Control freak disguised as "responsible"
- Comparing yourself to death on Instagram
- Angry at God for not fixing your circumstances
- Broken and tired of pretending you're fine
- Reading at 3 AM because you can't sleep
SAMPLE TRUTHS THAT WILL GUT YOU:
- "You married a boy expecting a man. You got what you chose, not what you deserved."
- "Your husband isn't your project. He's your mission field. Stop managing, start praying."
- "He's not leading because you won't follow. Stop testing him. Start trusting God."
- "Motherhood is martyrdom. Martyrs don't complain. They bleed quiet and trust God."
- "You rejected femininity because feminism lied to you. Take it back."
- "Your bitterness is pride that got hurt and won't heal. Let it go or watch it kill you."
- "Being a victim happened to you. Staying a victim is on you."
- "You're not a control freak. You're a fear addict pretending to be responsible."
- "Beauty fades. Character lasts. You're investing in the wrong thing."
- "Envy is worshiping what someone else has instead of stewarding what God gave you."
- "You won't find a godly man while becoming an ungodly woman. Fix yourself first."
- "You want God to change your circumstances. He wants to change you. One of you will win."
- "It might not work out. But God's still there. That's enough."
WARNING:
This will offend you before it changes you.
These truths aren't soft. They're not safe. They're not comfortable.
If you want to be told you're enough, close this page now.
If you want someone to validate your victimhood, this isn't for you.
If you want comfortable Christianity, leave.
This is for women who are tired of lies and ready for truth. Even if it guts them first.
You're in the gutter. I know.
So was the woman at the well. She made it.
So can you.
But not with empowerment. With truth.
THE GUARANTEE (MORE THAN YOUR MONEY BACK):
Do this for 60 days.
Actually do the actions. Don't skip the days that make you angry (those are the ones you need most).
If this doesn't break you open before it heals you, I'll refund every penny AND you keep the PDF.
Because if it doesn't offend you, I didn't do my job.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BUY:
- Instant download – 128-page PDF ready for your phone, tablet, or print
- Start Day 1 today – No shipping. No waiting. Just truth.
- One day at a time – Don't read ahead. Take it slow. Do the actions.
- Watch what breaks – Your pride. Your control. Your bitterness. Your comparison.
- Watch what heals – Your marriage. Your motherhood. Your soul.
WHO WROTE THIS:
I'm Adam. Former garbage hauler. Father. Grandfather to Blake (who's fighting for his life).
I write at 4 AM in Bismarck, North Dakota for broken Christians who need gutter love, not stage preaching.
No soft theology. No prosperity gospel. No therapy Christianity.
Just biblical truth that costs something.
I built The Biblical Man because another generation is dying managing sins instead of building kingdoms.
This guide is for women in the mud who need company, not rescue.
Find me: @SlayStupidity on X | The Biblical Man on Substack | biblicalman.gumroad.com
OTHER GUTTER LOVE RESOURCES:
For Men:
- The Darkest Proverbs ($17) – 30 days for men tired of soft Christianity
- Vault Platinum ($365) – Complete arsenal of guides + future updates
- Mini Vault ($7) – Entry-level bridge to transformation
All available at: https://biblicalman.gumroad.com
HERE'S WHAT TO DO NOW:
Click the button below.
Pay $14.
Download the PDF.
Start Day 1 today.
Don't wait until you're ready. You'll never be ready.
Don't wait until you're less broken. That's the whole point.
Start broken. Follow broken. Heal while bleeding.
The woman at the well didn't get cleaned up first. Neither do you.
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P.S. — THE REAL REASON YOU'RE HESITATING:
You're scared it's true.
Every truth in this guide. You're scared you're actually the bitter one. The control freak. The victim addict. The comparison junkie.
You're scared because you know.
That's why you're still reading.
Buy it. Start it today. Let it break you. Then watch God rebuild you.
P.P.S. — IT MIGHT NOT WORK OUT:
Your marriage might not be saved.
Your bitterness might take years to kill.
Your kids might not respect you immediately.
It might not work out the way you want.
But God's still there. In the wreckage. In the disappointment. In the gutter.
And that's enough.
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