How to Find a Godly Man (Among the Neverland Lost Boys)

You're in your 20s and you want a godly man.

Good.

Now stop doing what every other Christian woman is doing, because that's how you end up 35, bitter, and barren.

Let me guess your current strategy:

You're "focusing on yourself" and your career, trusting God will bring the right man "in His timing." You're screening out every man who approaches you because none of them meet your checklist. You're waiting for a 6'2" emotionally available worship leader with a six-figure income.

Or maybe you're at Christian singles events where damaged men in their late 30s are still "finding themselves" while living like teenagers.

Or you're turning down good young men because they're not "established enough" yet—even though they're working hard, love Jesus, and want to marry you.

This is how you end up alone.

THE HARD TRUTH

The problem isn't that there are no godly men.

The problem isn't that all the good ones are taken.

The problem isn't that you need to lower your standards.

The problem is you're looking for a finished product instead of a man who's building.

And while you're screening out the 24-year-old who's ready to carry weight, you're keeping the 35-year-old Lost Boy in play—the one who's spent 15 years avoiding responsibility.

You're rejecting the right men and entertaining the wrong ones.

THE WEIGHT PRINCIPLE

Here's what nobody's telling you:

A young man is like a truck driving in snow.

If the truck has no weight in the bed, it fishtails. No traction. Dangerous.

But if you put weight in the bed? The tires grip. The truck drives straight. It can haul.

Young men are the same way.

A 24-year-old with no wife, no children, no responsibility? He's fishtailing. Directionless.

But that same man, married, with a wife depending on him? He gains traction. He rises to the challenge. He becomes a man.

Marriage doesn't break good men. It makes them.

The responsibility of providing, protecting, leading—that's the weight that turns boys into men.

But you've been told to avoid men who don't already carry that weight.

So you reject the Builder at 24.

And you wait for the "established" man at 35 who's proven he avoids weight.

You're screening for the wrong thing.

WHAT YOU'LL GET

This isn't "10 tips to attract men." This isn't "how to manifest your husband." This isn't soft modern dating advice.

This is a biblical framework for recognizing real men (vs. Lost Boys), positioning yourself where they are, and getting married young before the world convinces you to wait.

Inside this 38-page guide, you'll get:

✓ The 5-Step Framework

Step 1: Stop Waiting and Start Preparing - Become the woman a godly man wants to marry (includes the Submission Test)

Step 2: Go Where Real Men Actually Are - Where they're NOT (apps, corporate offices) and where they ARE (biblical churches, service ministries)

Step 3: Recognize a Man vs. a Boy - How to spot a Builder vs. a Lost Boy (includes green flags and red flags)

Step 4: Let Him Lead (Even Before the Ring) - Practice submission in courtship so you're ready for marriage

Step 5: Marry Young (Before the World Tells You Not To) - Why waiting until 30 destroys your options and timeline

✓ The Weight Principle (Full Chapter)

Why young men who are willing to carry responsibility are better than "established" men who avoided it. This one concept will change how you evaluate every man.

✓ The Lost Boys Problem

Who they are, how modern Christianity created them, and how to avoid wasting time on them.

✓ The Builder vs. Lost Boy Checklist

Green flags that signal a real man. Red flags that signal a boy. Clear, tactical criteria.

✓ The 30-Day Action Plan

Week-by-week steps to prepare yourself, position yourself, and be ready when a godly Builder pursues you.

✓ What Doesn't Work (And Why)

The 5 lies keeping you single: "Focus on yourself," "Get established first," "There are no good men," "Don't settle," "Just be yourself."

WHO THIS IS FOR

This guide is for Christian women who:

✓ Actually want to get married - Not just date forever

✓ Want biblical marriage - Husband leads, wife submits (Ephesians 5)

✓ Are willing to marry young - 20s, not waiting until 30+

✓ Want the truth - Not comfortable lies

✓ Are tired of screening out good men - Because they don't meet impossible checklists

✓ Are willing to reject feminism - And embrace biblical femininity

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR

This guide is not for:

✗ Women who believe in egalitarian marriage (50/50 partnership)

✗ Women who want to "focus on career" until their 30s

✗ Women who think submission is oppression

✗ Women looking for a finished product instead of a Builder

✗ Feminists (this will offend you)

If you believe men and women are interchangeable, this guide isn't for you.

But if you want a biblical marriage with a godly man who leads?

This is exactly what you need.

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT

Most Christian relationship advice for women sounds like this:

"Focus on your relationship with God and He'll bring the right man at the right time. Don't settle. Wait for someone who's established and ready."

That's how you end up 35 and single.

Here's what this guide teaches:

Stop looking for finished products. Start recognizing Builders.

The 24-year-old who's working construction, loves Jesus, serves at church, and wants to marry you?

He's a better choice than the 35-year-old who's "established" but spent 15 years avoiding responsibility.

Because the Builder will grow with you. The "established" man will expect you to fit into his life.

You'll learn:

How to become the woman a godly man wants (not by being perfect, but by preparing)

Where godly men actually are (not on dating apps)

The Weight Principle (why young Builders are better than "established" Lost Boys)

How to spot the difference between a man and a boy

How to practice submission before the ring

Why marrying in your early 20s is biblical (and how modern culture lies about it)

WHAT'S INSIDE - FULL BREAKDOWN

INTRODUCTION: Why You're Still Single

The hard truth about modern Christian dating culture

SECTION 1: The Lost Boys Problem

Who are the Lost Boys?

Why modern Christianity creates them

The two types of men (Builder vs. Lost Boy)

Why you want the Builder, not the "finished product"

The Weight Principle explained

SECTION 2: What Doesn't Work (And Why)

Lie #1: "Focus on Yourself and God Will Bring Him"

Lie #2: "You Need to Be Established First"

Lie #3: "There Are No Good Men Left"

Lie #4: "Don't Settle"

Lie #5: "Just Be Yourself"

SECTION 3: The Five-Step Framework

STEP 1: Stop Waiting and Start Preparing (8 pages)

What "prepared" looks like (spiritual, practical, emotional, physical)

The Submission Test (the hard question most women fail)

The Proverbs 31 woman (what she actually is)

Action items for preparation

STEP 2: Go Where Real Men Actually Are (6 pages)

Where they're NOT (apps, corporate offices, mega-churches)

Where they ARE (biblical churches, service ministries, godly families)

The strategy for positioning yourself

How to be findable and approachable

STEP 3: Recognize a Man vs. a Boy (7 pages)

Lost Boy red flags (9 disqualifying traits)

Builder green flags (9 signs of a real man)

The Weight Test (is he willing to carry responsibility?)

The Father Test (will he talk to your dad?)

Questions to ask him

STEP 4: Let Him Lead (Even Before the Ring) (5 pages)

What this means (and doesn't mean)

The courtship rules (public, accountable, intentional)

Red flags during courtship

Practicing submission before marriage

STEP 5: Marry Young (Before the World Tells You Not To) (6 pages)

Why marrying young works (build together, more time for children, avoid temptation)

How to do it without being stupid (foundations needed)

What "young" means (20-25 ideally)

Timeline from meeting to marriage (12-18 months)

SECTION 4: The Weight Principle (Deep Dive)

The truck analogy explained

How this applies to men (weight makes them, doesn't break them)

Why modern culture gets this wrong

The biblical pattern (Joseph, Jacob, Moses, David)

What you're actually choosing (Builder vs. Established Man)

SECTION 5: The Binary Choice

Path 1: Modern Christian Woman Playbook (stay single)

Path 2: Biblical Woman Playbook (build a legacy)

What most women will do (and why they'll fail)

SECTION 6: 30-Day Action Plan

Days 1-7: Self-Assessment (spiritual, skills, heart, church, standards, femininity)

Days 8-30: Build the Foundation (discipline, skills, kill lies)

Months 2-6: Position Yourself (church, serve, be findable)

Months 7-12: Let Him Lead (courtship to marriage)

SECTION 7: Next Steps

Resources for going deeper

Three choices you have right now

Final word: Do the work

THE INVESTMENT

$27

That's less than:

Two weeks of daily Starbucks

One month of dating app subscriptions

The cost of another wasted year being single

For the price of a nice dinner, you get:

A 38-page tactical manual

The 5-step biblical framework

The Weight Principle (this alone is worth $100)

Builder vs. Lost Boy checklists

30-day action plan

Lifetime access (no subscriptions)

One-time payment. Instant download. Yours forever.

GUARANTEE

If you read this guide, apply the framework, and don't see a measurable shift in how you evaluate men and approach marriage within 30 days, email me.

I'll refund you. No questions. No hoops.

Why?

Because this system is built on Scripture, tested by time, and proven by women who have strong biblical marriages.

If it doesn't work for you, you shouldn't pay for it.

Simple.

WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING

"I was 26 and still screening out every man who wasn't 'established.' This guide showed me I was rejecting Builders and keeping Lost Boys in play. I'm now engaged to a 24-year-old man who's everything I actually needed." - Sarah, 27

"The Weight Principle changed everything. I stopped looking for finished products and started recognizing men who were willing to build. Met my husband 3 months later." - Emily, 25

"I wasted my early 20s on career. This guide woke me up. I'm 29 now, married to a godly man, and expecting our first child. Wish I'd read this at 22." - Jessica, 29

"This isn't soft Christian dating advice. This is what our grandmothers knew and we forgot. Every woman in her 20s needs this." - Hannah, 24

FAQ

Q: Is this anti-feminist?

Yes. If you're a feminist, this guide will offend you. It's built on biblical womanhood (submission, children, home), not modern egalitarianism.

Q: I'm 30. Is it too late for me?

No. The framework works at any age. But you've lost time you can't get back. Start now. Don't wait another year.

Q: What if I don't want to submit?

Then you don't want biblical marriage. Ephesians 5:22 is not optional. If submission offends you, save your $27.

Q: What if there are no godly men at my church?

Then you're at the wrong church. The guide shows you how to find a biblical church where men are being discipled and women are being taught biblical femininity.

Q: Should I really consider a man who's not established yet?

Yes. A 24-year-old Builder who's willing to carry weight is a better choice than a 35-year-old who avoided it. The guide explains why with the Weight Principle.

Q: What if my parents think I should wait until I'm 30?

Your parents are wrong. Women's fertility declines after 30. If you want children, waiting is foolish. The guide addresses this.

Q: Is this just for women who want to be stay-at-home moms?

Biblical womanhood centers on home and family (Titus 2, Proverbs 31). If that's not your vision, this guide isn't for you.

Q: How long does this process take?

The guide includes a 30-day preparation plan, then 6-12 months to position yourself and be pursued. Total timeline to marriage: 12-18 months if you execute.

Q: What format is this?

PDF. 38 pages. Instant download. Works on phone, tablet, laptop, or print.

You have two choices:

Choice 1:

Keep doing what you've been doing. Keep focusing on career. Keep screening out Builders because they're not "established" yet. Keep waiting for the perfect finished product. End up 35 and alone.

Choice 2:

Get this guide. Learn the Weight Principle. Stop rejecting good men. Prepare yourself for biblical marriage. Give godly Builders a chance. Marry young and build a legacy.

Not someday. Today.

The price is $27. The cost of waiting is your fertility, your timeline, and your future family.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

I'm Adam.

I write at The Biblical Man (thebiblicalmantruth.com).

I teach biblical masculinity and femininity—what Scripture actually says, not what modern culture wants it to say.

I'm not a relationship coach. I'm not selling dating hacks.

I'm teaching the old way. The way that worked for 2,000 years before modern Christianity feminized men and masculinized women.

This guide is built on Scripture, grounded in reality, and proven by women who followed it and built strong marriages.

It's what I'd want my daughter to read at 20.

Now it's yours.

P.S.

If you're still reading, you already know you need this.

You're tired of screening out good men because they don't meet your checklist.

You're tired of waiting for a finished product that doesn't exist.

You're tired of watching godly Builders marry other women while you're stuck with Lost Boys.

Stop waiting. Get the guide. Learn the Weight Principle. Start building.

$27. 38 pages. 30-day guarantee.

P.P.S. - The Weight Principle Alone Is Worth $100

If you take nothing else from this guide, take this:

A young man who's willing to carry weight at 24 is a better choice than a "finished" man at 35 who avoided it.

The Builder becomes the strong man at 40.

The Lost Boy stays stuck at 50.

You're not looking for finished products. You're looking for men willing to build.

That one shift in perspective will change your entire approach to marriage.

Get the guide. Learn the framework. Stop rejecting the right men.