What Are You Really Building?

The Woman's Guide to Kingdom vs. Career

Pay What You Want (Including Nothing)

I'm Not Going to Guilt You Into Paying

I'm not going to create fake urgency or limited-time bonuses to pressure you into buying.

If you can't afford to pay anything, download this for free. Use it. Let it change your life.

But if this guide helps you stop cradling wooden substitutes and start building something eternal—if it opens your eyes to the lies you've been told about fulfillment—then pay what it's worth to you.

Some women will pay nothing. Some will pay $10. Some will pay $50.

The content doesn't change. The transformation doesn't change.

What matters is that you actually apply what you learn.

The Woman Who Inspired This Guide

The year was 1871. A woman sat chained to a stone wall, cradling what looked like a baby. The artist titled it "The Lunatic of Étretat."

That woman wasn't holding a child. She was holding a piece of wood.

She'd carved a face into it. Wrapped it in cloth. Convinced herself it was real. While her womb stayed empty and her life stayed meaningless.

You're doing the same thing with your career.

You're cradling quarterly earnings like children. Treating promotions like pregnancies. Calling your achievements your "babies" while your actual fertility window closes.

This guide will show you the difference between building a kingdom and cradling wood.

Why Most Christian Women Are Building the Wrong Thing

You've been lied to about what fulfillment looks like.

They told you it looks like corner offices and conference speaking. Six-figure salaries and advanced degrees. Professional recognition and financial independence.

It doesn't.

Fulfillment looks like children who rise up and call you blessed. A husband who praises you. Work that serves your family instead of replacing it.

But when crisis hits your family, you panic instead of having Abigail's wisdom.

When your children ask hard questions, you don't have biblical answers.

When your marriage struggles, you compete instead of complement.

Because you've been building monuments to yourself instead of building God's kingdom.

What You'll Discover Inside This Guide

Chapter 1: The Wooden Baby Syndrome

• The 5 wooden substitutes Christian women cradle instead of real children
• Why career success, educational achievement, and financial independence can't love you back
• The brutal test that reveals which "babies" you're actually holding

Chapter 2: The Abigail Alternative

• How Abigail saved 400 lives by being fully woman, not trying to be a man
• The difference between biblical femininity (power) and modern femininity (weakness)
• Why submission is strength, not surrender—but only with the right man

Chapter 3: The Fertility Window Crisis

• The brutal biology of delayed motherhood that no one talks about
• Why "40 is the new 30" is a lie your ovaries don't believe
• How to calculate the real cost of career ambition on your ability to have children

Chapter 4: The Ruth Decision

• How to choose covering over independence without becoming helpless
• The two types of men: Boaz types worth following vs. Nabal types to avoid
• Why "I don't need a man" is rebellion against God's design for your protection

Chapter 5: The Esther Protocol

• How to influence without competing, lead without dominating
• The four-step method Esther used to change a king's mind and save a nation
• Why feminine wisdom accomplishes what masculine force cannot

Chapter 6: The Proverbs 31 Reality Check

• What the "virtuous woman" actually built (and what modern women get wrong)
• How to work excellently while putting family first—not the reverse
• Why her children called her blessed and what yours will say about you

Chapter 7: The Decision Framework

• The five-question test for every major life choice
• How to choose between kingdom and career when the pressure is on
• Age-specific guidance for building something that lasts

This Isn't Another Women's Empowerment Guide

You'll find plenty of those telling you that you can "have it all."

This guide tells you the truth: You can't have it all. But you can have what matters.

You can build something eternal instead of chasing temporal shadows. You can complement God's design instead of competing with it. You can be Abigail instead of the Lunatic of Étretat.

But only if you're willing to admit you've been building the wrong thing.

Who This Guide Will Transform

✓ Christian women wrestling with career vs. calling who feel the tension but don't know how to resolve it

✓ Women approaching 30 who are starting to panic about marriage and children timing

✓ Mothers feeling guilty about working outside the home while raising children

✓ Wives whose marriages are struggling because they're trying to be both provider and nurturer

✓ Women tired of feminist lies who want biblical truth about womanhood and purpose

✓ Daughters of Christian parents who need guidance that contradicts culture but aligns with Scripture

Who This Guide Will Frustrate

✗ Women who believe career advancement equals personal worth

✗ Christians who think questioning modern femininity is "oppressive"

✗ Anyone looking for validation of choices that contradict biblical design

✗ Women who want to delay serious life decisions indefinitely

✗ People who think biological realities are social constructs

A Fair Warning

This guide will ruin casual feminism for you.

You won't be able to celebrate women who choose careers over children without seeing the tragedy. You won't be satisfied with "balance" when you understand God's design for priorities. You won't accept modern lies about fulfillment when you've seen biblical truth about womanhood.

You'll start thinking like a biblical woman instead of a modern woman who happens to be Christian.

Some people will think you've become "too traditional" or "anti-feminist." Let them think that. Better to be accused of taking Scripture too seriously than standing before God having ignored His design for your life.

What Makes This Different

I'm not writing as a women's ministry leader trying to make everyone feel comfortable.

I'm writing as a man who's watched Christian women destroy their lives chasing lies about fulfillment while cradling wooden substitutes.

I've seen brilliant women waste their fertility window building careers that can't love them back. I've watched marriages crumble because wives were taught to compete instead of complement. I've seen children suffer because mothers were told work fulfillment matters more than family presence.

This guide contains the biblical truth most Christian women need to hear but won't get from female teachers afraid to offend modern sensibilities.

How Much Should You Pay?

I told you—pay what you want.

But consider this:

If this guide prevents you from wasting years building the wrong thing, what's that worth?

If it helps you recognize wooden substitutes before you sacrifice your fertility window for them, what's that worth?

If it shows you how to choose the right man and avoid years of relationship disaster, what's that worth?

If it helps you build something your children will call blessed instead of something that dies when you do, what's that worth?

You decide.

What You'll Get Immediately

✓ 25-page comprehensive guide with complete frameworks for major life decisions

✓ Biblical case studies of women who built kingdoms vs. women who built monuments

✓ Practical decision matrices for career, marriage, education, and timing choices

✓ Age-specific guidance for every stage of womanhood (18-25, 25-35, 35-50, 50+)

✓ Red flags and green flags for choosing men worthy of your submission

✓ The fertility window reality no other guide addresses honestly

✓ Lifetime access - download once, reference forever

✓ No email required - instant download, no follow-up sequences

Still Not Sure?

Here's what I know about you:

You're reading this because something about modern womanhood isn't working. You've tried to "have it all" and ended up exhausted. You've pursued career success and felt empty. You've delayed marriage and children for "someday" and now you're wondering if someday will ever come.

You sense you've been lied to about what will actually fulfill you.

You're right.

This guide will show you what you're actually building—and whether it's worth the price you're paying.

If it doesn't help you make better decisions about the direction of your life, you paid what you thought it was worth (maybe nothing).

If it does help you choose kingdom over career, you got wisdom that will echo through generations.

My Only Request

Don't let this sit on your device unread.

Use it.

The biological clock doesn't pause. The fertility window doesn't reopen. The years you spend building the wrong thing can't be recovered.

Most Christian women spend their twenties and thirties building careers that can't call them blessed, then spend their forties and fifties regretting what they sacrificed.

This guide will help you avoid that tragedy.

If you let it.

Final Thought

Arnold Murray of Shepherd's Chapel used to say, "If you don't have the money, don't send it. We don't want your grocery money."

I feel the same way.

But if this guide transforms how you think about womanhood—if it helps you choose eternal purpose over temporal achievement—then it's worth whatever you decide to pay.

And if it's not worth anything to you, then you probably weren't ready to stop cradling wood anyway.

Download it. Read it. Choose kingdom over career.

Your future children are counting on the decision you make today.

About The Biblical Man: I write for Christians who are tired of therapeutic religion and ready for uncomfortable truth that actually transforms lives. This guide is part of a series helping men and women understand God's design for gender, family, and kingdom building.

Connect with me at BiblicalMan.substack.com for weekly insights that build biblical thinkers, not religious consumers.

"She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her." — Proverbs 31:27-28